Solution<\/strong>: The first thing I did was to bring this awareness of Drama Triangle among all the participants. I showed them how each of them are playing their part in keeping the game alive without their awareness. Since they were all playing this at an unconscious level, it is very difficult to come out unless someone can bring that awareness. They had not seen this problem in the lens of a Drama Triangle at all. This helped them break the resistances on solving the problem and see how they themselves contributed to solving this problem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n The main issue was that the team members did not develop enough skills in their project. We found during the session that most of it could be addressed if the team was involved in the decision making, hold them accountable and if they can be helped in enhancing the skills. The team was given a lot more autonomy. They were involved in the planning meetings and their opinions and decisions were given more weightage. While a separate time was scoped out for KT, it was made sure that the team would start fronting all the work where as the team leads would play the supporting role. The team found the work lot more challenging, while the seniors played the role of mentors. As a result, the team started to learn not only the technical skills but also the Leadership skills to feel empowered. Gradually, there was a decrease in unplanned leaves as the team felt more empowered.<\/p>\n","post_title":"CHOW#287 - The Drama of \"Unplanned Leaves\"","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"chow287-the-drama-of-unplanned-leaves","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-01-23 08:29:34","post_modified_gmt":"2024-01-23 08:29:34","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/pm-powerconsulting.com\/?p=19790","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":true,"total_page":4},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_3o3","class":"epic_block_11"};
Here is how we solved the problem:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Solution<\/strong>: The first thing I did was to bring this awareness of Drama Triangle among all the participants. I showed them how each of them are playing their part in keeping the game alive without their awareness. Since they were all playing this at an unconscious level, it is very difficult to come out unless someone can bring that awareness. They had not seen this problem in the lens of a Drama Triangle at all. This helped them break the resistances on solving the problem and see how they themselves contributed to solving this problem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n The main issue was that the team members did not develop enough skills in their project. We found during the session that most of it could be addressed if the team was involved in the decision making, hold them accountable and if they can be helped in enhancing the skills. The team was given a lot more autonomy. They were involved in the planning meetings and their opinions and decisions were given more weightage. While a separate time was scoped out for KT, it was made sure that the team would start fronting all the work where as the team leads would play the supporting role. The team found the work lot more challenging, while the seniors played the role of mentors. As a result, the team started to learn not only the technical skills but also the Leadership skills to feel empowered. Gradually, there was a decrease in unplanned leaves as the team felt more empowered.<\/p>\n","post_title":"CHOW#287 - The Drama of \"Unplanned Leaves\"","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"chow287-the-drama-of-unplanned-leaves","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-01-23 08:29:34","post_modified_gmt":"2024-01-23 08:29:34","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/pm-powerconsulting.com\/?p=19790","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":true,"total_page":4},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_3o3","class":"epic_block_11"};
...............................................................................................................................<\/p>\n\n\n\n Here is how we solved the problem:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Solution<\/strong>: The first thing I did was to bring this awareness of Drama Triangle among all the participants. I showed them how each of them are playing their part in keeping the game alive without their awareness. Since they were all playing this at an unconscious level, it is very difficult to come out unless someone can bring that awareness. They had not seen this problem in the lens of a Drama Triangle at all. This helped them break the resistances on solving the problem and see how they themselves contributed to solving this problem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n The main issue was that the team members did not develop enough skills in their project. We found during the session that most of it could be addressed if the team was involved in the decision making, hold them accountable and if they can be helped in enhancing the skills. The team was given a lot more autonomy. They were involved in the planning meetings and their opinions and decisions were given more weightage. While a separate time was scoped out for KT, it was made sure that the team would start fronting all the work where as the team leads would play the supporting role. The team found the work lot more challenging, while the seniors played the role of mentors. As a result, the team started to learn not only the technical skills but also the Leadership skills to feel empowered. Gradually, there was a decrease in unplanned leaves as the team felt more empowered.<\/p>\n","post_title":"CHOW#287 - The Drama of \"Unplanned Leaves\"","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"chow287-the-drama-of-unplanned-leaves","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-01-23 08:29:34","post_modified_gmt":"2024-01-23 08:29:34","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/pm-powerconsulting.com\/?p=19790","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":true,"total_page":4},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_3o3","class":"epic_block_11"};
...............................................................................................................................<\/p>\n\n\n\n ...............................................................................................................................<\/p>\n\n\n\n Here is how we solved the problem:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Solution<\/strong>: The first thing I did was to bring this awareness of Drama Triangle among all the participants. I showed them how each of them are playing their part in keeping the game alive without their awareness. Since they were all playing this at an unconscious level, it is very difficult to come out unless someone can bring that awareness. They had not seen this problem in the lens of a Drama Triangle at all. This helped them break the resistances on solving the problem and see how they themselves contributed to solving this problem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n The main issue was that the team members did not develop enough skills in their project. We found during the session that most of it could be addressed if the team was involved in the decision making, hold them accountable and if they can be helped in enhancing the skills. The team was given a lot more autonomy. They were involved in the planning meetings and their opinions and decisions were given more weightage. While a separate time was scoped out for KT, it was made sure that the team would start fronting all the work where as the team leads would play the supporting role. The team found the work lot more challenging, while the seniors played the role of mentors. As a result, the team started to learn not only the technical skills but also the Leadership skills to feel empowered. Gradually, there was a decrease in unplanned leaves as the team felt more empowered.<\/p>\n","post_title":"CHOW#287 - The Drama of \"Unplanned Leaves\"","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"chow287-the-drama-of-unplanned-leaves","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-01-23 08:29:34","post_modified_gmt":"2024-01-23 08:29:34","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/pm-powerconsulting.com\/?p=19790","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":true,"total_page":4},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_3o3","class":"epic_block_11"};
...............................................................................................................................<\/p>\n\n\n\n ...............................................................................................................................<\/p>\n\n\n\n ...............................................................................................................................<\/p>\n\n\n\n Here is how we solved the problem:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Solution<\/strong>: The first thing I did was to bring this awareness of Drama Triangle among all the participants. I showed them how each of them are playing their part in keeping the game alive without their awareness. Since they were all playing this at an unconscious level, it is very difficult to come out unless someone can bring that awareness. They had not seen this problem in the lens of a Drama Triangle at all. This helped them break the resistances on solving the problem and see how they themselves contributed to solving this problem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n The main issue was that the team members did not develop enough skills in their project. We found during the session that most of it could be addressed if the team was involved in the decision making, hold them accountable and if they can be helped in enhancing the skills. The team was given a lot more autonomy. They were involved in the planning meetings and their opinions and decisions were given more weightage. While a separate time was scoped out for KT, it was made sure that the team would start fronting all the work where as the team leads would play the supporting role. The team found the work lot more challenging, while the seniors played the role of mentors. As a result, the team started to learn not only the technical skills but also the Leadership skills to feel empowered. Gradually, there was a decrease in unplanned leaves as the team felt more empowered.<\/p>\n","post_title":"CHOW#287 - The Drama of \"Unplanned Leaves\"","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"chow287-the-drama-of-unplanned-leaves","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-01-23 08:29:34","post_modified_gmt":"2024-01-23 08:29:34","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/pm-powerconsulting.com\/?p=19790","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":true,"total_page":4},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_3o3","class":"epic_block_11"};
In order to break this pattern, there should be an active involvement of all the participants to solve the root problem and address the same. How would you solve this problem?<\/p>\n\n\n\n ...............................................................................................................................<\/p>\n\n\n\n ...............................................................................................................................<\/p>\n\n\n\n ...............................................................................................................................<\/p>\n\n\n\n Here is how we solved the problem:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Solution<\/strong>: The first thing I did was to bring this awareness of Drama Triangle among all the participants. I showed them how each of them are playing their part in keeping the game alive without their awareness. Since they were all playing this at an unconscious level, it is very difficult to come out unless someone can bring that awareness. They had not seen this problem in the lens of a Drama Triangle at all. This helped them break the resistances on solving the problem and see how they themselves contributed to solving this problem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n The main issue was that the team members did not develop enough skills in their project. We found during the session that most of it could be addressed if the team was involved in the decision making, hold them accountable and if they can be helped in enhancing the skills. The team was given a lot more autonomy. They were involved in the planning meetings and their opinions and decisions were given more weightage. While a separate time was scoped out for KT, it was made sure that the team would start fronting all the work where as the team leads would play the supporting role. The team found the work lot more challenging, while the seniors played the role of mentors. As a result, the team started to learn not only the technical skills but also the Leadership skills to feel empowered. Gradually, there was a decrease in unplanned leaves as the team felt more empowered.<\/p>\n","post_title":"CHOW#287 - The Drama of \"Unplanned Leaves\"","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"chow287-the-drama-of-unplanned-leaves","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-01-23 08:29:34","post_modified_gmt":"2024-01-23 08:29:34","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/pm-powerconsulting.com\/?p=19790","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":true,"total_page":4},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_3o3","class":"epic_block_11"};
This is typically how the Drama Triangle works. And because the roles keep switching, it will keep the \"Game\" of the recurring problem alive. And all of this happens at an unconscious level. This also results in a negative feeling for everybody involved. Because, it happens at an unconscious level for all the players, they would also struggle to come out of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In order to break this pattern, there should be an active involvement of all the participants to solve the root problem and address the same. How would you solve this problem?<\/p>\n\n\n\n ...............................................................................................................................<\/p>\n\n\n\n ...............................................................................................................................<\/p>\n\n\n\n ...............................................................................................................................<\/p>\n\n\n\n Here is how we solved the problem:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Solution<\/strong>: The first thing I did was to bring this awareness of Drama Triangle among all the participants. I showed them how each of them are playing their part in keeping the game alive without their awareness. Since they were all playing this at an unconscious level, it is very difficult to come out unless someone can bring that awareness. They had not seen this problem in the lens of a Drama Triangle at all. This helped them break the resistances on solving the problem and see how they themselves contributed to solving this problem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n The main issue was that the team members did not develop enough skills in their project. We found during the session that most of it could be addressed if the team was involved in the decision making, hold them accountable and if they can be helped in enhancing the skills. The team was given a lot more autonomy. They were involved in the planning meetings and their opinions and decisions were given more weightage. While a separate time was scoped out for KT, it was made sure that the team would start fronting all the work where as the team leads would play the supporting role. The team found the work lot more challenging, while the seniors played the role of mentors. As a result, the team started to learn not only the technical skills but also the Leadership skills to feel empowered. Gradually, there was a decrease in unplanned leaves as the team felt more empowered.<\/p>\n","post_title":"CHOW#287 - The Drama of \"Unplanned Leaves\"","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"chow287-the-drama-of-unplanned-leaves","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-01-23 08:29:34","post_modified_gmt":"2024-01-23 08:29:34","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/pm-powerconsulting.com\/?p=19790","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":true,"total_page":4},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_3o3","class":"epic_block_11"};